I'm starting to be a nag
Ok, I'm really blogging too much. Major blogging addict. Aiya, just let me say my piece. Will make this quick. Some random thoughts.
I miss my 外公..
Went to pay our respects to him today. He used to drive us (Hanxu and me) to school and back home when we were primary school kids, right up till when I was a Sec4 student, when he fell ill. Intestinal cancer. The doctor said he drank too much. That is why I hate it when my friends drink, like free. We saw him everyday before all that happened. He was always acting mean to me, asking me to "shut up" whenever I asked him to not smoke and drink so much. There was once when he did it in front of all the granduncles and grandaunties and made me cry, although I didn't cry easily. But he's really someone whose bark is fiercer than his bite. 外公, I miss you.
I don't like violent fathers who threaten to hurt their kids..
I was seated on a bus today when a Malay family boarded the bus. Suddenly heard a "plop!" sound. Poor little malay girl, about 2 years old, fell near the door. A kind-hearted uncle helped her up. Poor little thing moved on and sat down beside her sister, who's older than her by only a bit. Malay father raised his fist and acted like he will strike poor little thing's older sister. Like, hello?! It's not even her fault that her younger sister fell can? Mr Father, if you feel embarrassed about letting your daughter fall on the bus, therefore showing negligence and carelessness on YOUR part, you jolly well keep that to yourself instead of taking it out on your daughter. As if your gesture will make the people on the bus think that it was not your fault that your daughter fell. BAH! *angry*
After a while I turned and realised poor little thing's sister was looking my way. So I smiled at her, and she smiled back a little before suddenly turning and checking if Mr Father was looking at her. Phobia of parental violence. So sad. But I was happy that she did not ignore my smile. I always feel happy when kids smile at me. *happy*
Hate him/her, let him/her know..
I really think it's damn sad and unfair if somebody hates you and makes it a secret. Like, please, if you hate someone, let him know. He should at least have the right to decide if he wants to hate you back right? Imagine this:
Tom and Jerry appear to be good friends, but actually Jerry has been harboring a grudge against Tom for a long time. Jerry goes around telling people he hates Tom, but Tom does not know. Tom still treats Jerry like he's his best friend.
How do you feel about this? Super sad right? Tom is being made a fool without even knowing it. Yup, so if you hate someone, be kind enough to let him know.
Are you really happy?
People who describe themselves as easy-going and happy-go-lucky are in fact, not very happy. In the first place, if you are happy-go-lucky, you must be going through a lot, just that you decide to overlook your problems and be happy, right? Ok, maybe I'm thinking too much. What the hell am I doing huh?! Confusing myself when the exams are coming. FOCUS!!!
I miss my 外公..
Went to pay our respects to him today. He used to drive us (Hanxu and me) to school and back home when we were primary school kids, right up till when I was a Sec4 student, when he fell ill. Intestinal cancer. The doctor said he drank too much. That is why I hate it when my friends drink, like free. We saw him everyday before all that happened. He was always acting mean to me, asking me to "shut up" whenever I asked him to not smoke and drink so much. There was once when he did it in front of all the granduncles and grandaunties and made me cry, although I didn't cry easily. But he's really someone whose bark is fiercer than his bite. 外公, I miss you.
I don't like violent fathers who threaten to hurt their kids..
I was seated on a bus today when a Malay family boarded the bus. Suddenly heard a "plop!" sound. Poor little malay girl, about 2 years old, fell near the door. A kind-hearted uncle helped her up. Poor little thing moved on and sat down beside her sister, who's older than her by only a bit. Malay father raised his fist and acted like he will strike poor little thing's older sister. Like, hello?! It's not even her fault that her younger sister fell can? Mr Father, if you feel embarrassed about letting your daughter fall on the bus, therefore showing negligence and carelessness on YOUR part, you jolly well keep that to yourself instead of taking it out on your daughter. As if your gesture will make the people on the bus think that it was not your fault that your daughter fell. BAH! *angry*
After a while I turned and realised poor little thing's sister was looking my way. So I smiled at her, and she smiled back a little before suddenly turning and checking if Mr Father was looking at her. Phobia of parental violence. So sad. But I was happy that she did not ignore my smile. I always feel happy when kids smile at me. *happy*
Hate him/her, let him/her know..
I really think it's damn sad and unfair if somebody hates you and makes it a secret. Like, please, if you hate someone, let him know. He should at least have the right to decide if he wants to hate you back right? Imagine this:
Tom and Jerry appear to be good friends, but actually Jerry has been harboring a grudge against Tom for a long time. Jerry goes around telling people he hates Tom, but Tom does not know. Tom still treats Jerry like he's his best friend.
How do you feel about this? Super sad right? Tom is being made a fool without even knowing it. Yup, so if you hate someone, be kind enough to let him know.
Are you really happy?
People who describe themselves as easy-going and happy-go-lucky are in fact, not very happy. In the first place, if you are happy-go-lucky, you must be going through a lot, just that you decide to overlook your problems and be happy, right? Ok, maybe I'm thinking too much. What the hell am I doing huh?! Confusing myself when the exams are coming. FOCUS!!!
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